热点话题 精深阅读(五) 主题语境:人与社会——珍惜友谊,树立正确的友谊观,提升交际能力 (2020·全国Ⅰ) A Few Tips for Self-Acceptance We all want it...to accept and love ourselves.But at times it seems too difficult and too far out of reach. 1 Here’s a handful of ways that will set you in the right direction. · 2 Do not follow the people who make you feel not-good-enough.Why do you follow them? Are you hoping that eventually you will feel empowered because your life is better than theirs? Know that your life is your own;you are the only you in this world. ·Forgive yourself for mistakes that you have made.We are often ashamed of our shortcomings,our mistakes and our failures. 3 You will make mistakes,time and time again.Rather than getting caught up in how you could have done better,why not offer yourself a compassionate (有同情心的) response? “That didn’t go as planned.But,I tried my best.” ·Recognize all of your strengths.Write them down in a journal.Begin to train your brain to look at strength before weakness.List all of your accomplishments and achievements.You have a job,earned your degree,and you got out of bed today. 4 ·Now that you’ve listed your strengths,list your imperfections.Turn the page in your journal.Put into words why you feel unworthy,why you don’t feel good enough.Now,read these words back to yourself. 5 Turn to a page in your journal to your list of strengths and achievements.See how